Wondering Who I Am?

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Leslie Spencer is the author of “The Christian Girl’s Guide to Divorce”. She is also a singer, musician, songwriter, teacher, designer; recovering actor and Evangelical.

Musical career highlights include the off-Broadway production of THE MARVELOUS WONDERETTES. She is a vocalist in THE BRIAN SETZER ORCHESTRA and has toured the United States, Canada, Europe and Japan with the big band. In addition, Leslie has recorded five albums and one live DVD with Setzer. Leslie is the former female Witness in LOUIS PRIMA JR. AND THE WITNESSES. She is a featured soloist on the band’s latest album,
BLOW, which was released June 10, 2014 on Warrior Records. Click here to listen to Leslie’s soulful voice.
Leslie has also written, recorded and released a solo debut album, SING OUT.
A native Angeleno, Leslie moved to New York City in 2009 and again in 2013. After five wonderful years in the city, she sold everything and moved back to Southern California, where she again resides.
Please feel free to contact Leslie! She would love to hear your story. christiangirlsguidetodivorce@gmail.com
Please note: The title of this blog and its contents are copyrighted. This blog is based on the author’s real life events. The names of certain characters have been changed or withheld in order to protect their rights and privacy. The author has tried to recreate events, locales and conversations from her memories of them. In order to maintain their anonymity in some instances, the author has changed the names of individuals and places. The author may also have changed some identifying characteristics and details such as physical properties, occupations and places of residence.
© 2021 Leslie Spencer

11 thoughts on “Wondering Who I Am?

  1. Kristin says:

    I just started reading your blog. I’m on chapter 3. I myself am 4 months post d-day and can highly relate with everything you’re saying. Thank you for your honesty. It’s refreshing, especially now.

    I too, think my therapist just loves seeing me weekly….ha.

  2. Amy says:

    I love this… like words cannot express.
    I just finished getting all caught up on your adventure.

    God is so wonderful and faithful.

    Of course my story is different than yours, as they all are.

    I’ve doubled your time, added two children 13 years apart, mixed-in a Whole Lot(!) more drama (I used to watch Jerry Springer to feel better because the only thing I knew for sure, besides being loved by God, was who my baby-daddy is!!)…
    and now, I am stepping out into the world on my own for the very second time -only now with an 8 year old- and still every bit as ‘confused’ as to what to do as I was at 18 when I found myself 23 years later…


    Wow. my how time flies when you’re….? I dunno.

    Anyway… 🙂
    Just wanted to say thanks for putting it out there. It’s an interesting journey for sure.
    I see parallels in the inward turmoil and questioning… the confidence in God… lots of things.
    I know you’re somewhat further along in your journey than what you write here; and I’m glad to know you’ve survived!! 🙂

    Plus… you Crack me up!! Your raw truth encourages and delights me. Thanks.

  3. Sophi Gilliland says:

    loved it and love it! Love YOU! 😉

  4. Hello! I was nominated for The Liebster Blog Award and asked to pass it on. I chose you as one of my nominees because of your dedicated posting, your incredible bravery, and your decision to share your story. You have a great talent for writing.

    You definitely don’t have to follow suit, but if you know of any up-and-coming blogs (with under 200 subscribers) and want to give them a shoutout, here are the Liebster Award Rules for nominations:

    The Meaning; Liebster is German and means sweetest, kindest, nicest,dearest, beloved, lovely, kindly, pleasant, valued, cute, endearing, and welcome.

    The rules for the Liebster Blog Award are:

    1. Thank your Liebster Blog Award presenter on your blog.

    2. Link back to the blogger who awarded you.

    3. Copy & paste the blog award on your blog

    4. Reveal your 5 blog picks.

    5. Let them know you choose them by leaving a comment on their blog.

  5. Jonathan says:

    You are incredible, I bet you have no idea how many people are following every update and read it over several times. It stops me every time a new one shows up on my FB feed and I have to read it.

  6. Zoe says:

    I can’t stop reading… I’m hungry for the next chapter. If you ever decide to publish this bad boy, I happen to know a book cover designer (aka yours truly!). Love you sweet sister. xoxoxoxox

  7. dawnielle says:

    I’m inspired by your transparency! I pray others will find comfort and solace in your story. God doesn’t waste anything. He makes ALL things good. Thank you Leslie!

  8. J says:

    Me too… miss you girl. This is hard to read but obviously not as hard as it was to write. Let’s talk soon.

  9. k says:

    Inspirational and true. Love you.

  10. scarlet says:

    so glad you decided to write this out

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